Fifty-seven percent of the nonreligious parents I surveyed earlier this year said they viewed religion “negatively, with exceptions,” while another 21 percent said they viewed it “both positively and negatively,” depending on the specific religion. This shouldn’t be all that surprising. Hell, even religious people have issues with religion.
I bring it up, though, because I wonder how many parents are (unintentionally or intentionally) passing on these negative views to their children. I honestly don’t know, and because I’m a moron*, I didn’t think to ask that specific question in the survey.
It’s very possible that, in a quest to give kids a chance to make up their own minds, parents keep quiet when it comes to placing judgment calls on religion in general. But it’s also possible that parents feel they’re entitled, if not obligated, to share their opinions. Even parents who don’t wish to “poison the waters” might not edit themselves in every situation — including ones in which their children are likely to overhear.
If you’re reading this blog, there’s a good chance that you’re not an anti-theist. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have strong opinions about some religious beliefs. (I’d be disappointed if you didn’t!)
So, I’d like to ask you….
Do you share negative opinions about religion with your kids? If so, which ones? And how old were your kids when you decided it was time? Also, do you balance out negative views with positive views, or give each view the weight you think it deserves.
Thank you kindly.
* Your cue to strongly disagree.